Know how to flirt with men who are shy in nature. Three most worked tips

Do u have a crush on a guy who doesn’t try to act cool in front of you?

Imagine a guy who always smiles at you but never tried to woo you. He stares at you but tries his best to avoid it. Most women like men who has a unique appeal rather than acting the same as other guys. Well sometimes, shy men gather their guts and ask you out while some take ages to do that. If you are curious to know more about him and want to know what lies beneath those mysterious layers, then you may have to approach him first. However, you must know how to approach and flirt men. You may also try out How to flirt with men article to know more. 

Follow these3 Golden Rules before flirting with a shy guy

1. Be an Initiator

Shy guys are not rude nor judgemental, they are just SHY. You have to be the first one to initiate a conversation. Shy guys are sweet in nature but they have little idea about how to start a conversation. Therefore, you might want to start a topic, which is common between you two. While talking, make sure you look at his face and smile. Most shy guys might turn back their eyes if you stare at him. Once he feels comfortable with you, he will try to initiate conversations in future on his own. Shy guys are very considerate about their feelings, which makes them control every word that came from their mouth. They won’t make a joke with you, fearing it might hurt your feelings. You will find them quite funny, once you get them in your comfort zone.

2. Make sure he is actually interested in you

Read the signs before approaching him. Shy men always feel nervous and panic before their crush. They will listen to you intently and gives you full attention when you are talking. Although, he might feel smitten and embarrassed if he gets caught while staring at you. Shy guys are unsure if you like them or not. Therefore, they need some assurance from your side too. Give him some subtle sign like complimenting him or touching his shoulder, which will assure that you like him too.

3. Don’t come off too strong

Start by being his friend and talk nicely to establish trust with him. Also, he must know that you are a kind person in general. Try to incorporate cute things in your topic while having a conversation. Say you love dogs, cats, kittens, babies etc. 

Try to be a little girly around them. It may sound sexist, but it is nothing to do about sexism. As shy guys are scared to talk to girls, you acting a bit forward may scare him away.

Follow our How to flirt with men article to have in-depth knowledge about the psychology of different men. 

LOVE Magnet uncovers the beautiful habits of happy couples for eternal love

No matter how low we feel, looking at a happy couple on a subway or on a park bench always brings a ray of hope for our love life. There are times when we ask ourselves, why am I still single? Where do we go wrong? Did I miss something in my last relationship? Will I ever get what 'they' have? 

We know, the series of questions will never end. However, we try our best to answer some of the frequent questions, by looking into the habits of happy couples and what rules they follow in their daily life. Did they follow a strategic pattern? Does it all comes naturally to them? We hope we will be able to address the topic properly. 

1. Communication

Establishing effective communication is the key to a happy relationship. Happy couples by default are very communicative and expressive with each other. They prefer to speak their mind and heart, rather than storing a bombarding dose of petty arguments and complaints. We often sweep our feelings under the rug, whether we don’t care for it enough or scared of hurting the ones we love. This is where we go wrong in a relationship. No matter how insignificant and minor the issues seem, it never leaves the premises of our brain. The piled up disagreement among couples starts taking the shape of a ticking time-bomb. Then there comes a time when it explodes and the catastrophe results in a broken heart and tainted relationship. 

So, whenever you feel offended or disliked the behavior of your partner, its ideal to speak up and communicate it to your partner with love. Shape your relationship to an extent that both of you became talkative with each other. Share your honest opinion whenever you can along with being more welcoming of your partner point of view. There is no argument in this world, which cant be solved with peace. 

2. Compatibility

Compatibility between couples is not limited to cultivate common interests but also habits as well. If you follow the habits of happy couples, you will find that they go to bed at the same time, they know how to forgive each other for small issues, they often say "I love you". Try to be more receptive and enjoy some goofy habits of your partner too. If your boyfriend like playing video games then try to play with him. If your girlfriend like to cooks, then watch some cooking shows with her and maybe surprise her by cooking something for her. 

3. Complement

Happy couples realize that unnecessary criticizing and nagging leads them to nowhere. The habits of happy couples include constant praising each other. If you like something about your partner then just say it to them. That will make them feel special and more connected to you.

We all celebrate LOVE not because we watch them in the movies or people talk about it all the time, It how human brain works and we have a natural tendency to incline towards love. Within the mist of depression, hatred, jealousy, self-consciousness; one power that triumphs all negativity is LOVE.

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